Monday, October 22, 2012

Friends

So sorry it has been such a long time since I have posted everyone! Life has been a little crazy!
Today's post is about friends. Friends are some of the most important things to a teenager! Well at least they are to me. My friends are the most amazing people I know and I just can't help but love every single one of them. They have helped me through everything trail in my life and I know I can depend on them. But you know like everyone, I haven't always had the best of friends.
There was a time in middle school when I honestly didn't have any friends. I sat alone at lunch and never felt like I really belonged when hanging out with the few girls that would have me. (I hope they don't mind me telling you this...) I saw them as friends but in their eyes, I'm pretty sure I was just an annoying girl no one wanted around. Eventually they started to slowly push me out and I was really hurt. Life was really hard then. I walked around school hallways alone and spent the weekends at home with my mom.... kinda pathetic for a pre teen.
I was really mad at these girls for a long time and I told myself I would never forgive them. I didn't know then that if I didn't forgive them, I would have never found some of my best friends in the planet! Two years after this all happened, I would have never guessed that three of these girls and I would become inseparable! I love these girls with all of my heart and I would never trade my experience of being friendless because I wouldn't have three of my best friends. These girls are so sweet and the whole experience was just some misunderstandings between us and some middle school drama mixed in.
My friends are my family. The guys in my group are the brothers I need and want. They protect me and help me with anything I need help with. They stand up for me when some idiot is rude to me at school and I know if I was ever in an emergency I could call them and they would come running.  My girls, oh my girls, I love them so much! I love our crazy dance parties and our gossip sessions. These girls know anything and everything about me and I bet you I could write novels on each of their lives. We know secrets about each other that could blackmail us into infinity.
These are the people I love to spend my time with and what teenager wouldn't! Our friends are our suport and our counslers. Their shoulders are stained with our tears and their hands bruised from hurting those who hurt us. I know I could never live without them and I want them to know I will always be there for them! I love you guys!
With so many friendship quotes it was hard to chose one today. "A real friend walks in when the rest of the world walks out." -unknown. To me this quote is absolutely true! If you have really good friends they aren't going to leave you for the crowd. They stick by your side no matter what happens in life. If they do leave you maybe they aren't worth your friendship. I hope you can all find friends that are just as amazing as mine and if you can't you've always got me! Have a great day everyone!

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