Thursday, October 25, 2012

Boys!!!

As teens what is one of the top reasons we are stressed out.....? Relationships! For girls, boys are probably the number one stessor. We spend hours getting ready, making sure that every acne spot is covered, creating the cutest outfits, and making sure we look absolutely perfect! But do they even notice? Sometimes I think not! We try so hard to just get something out of that one guy/girl and honestly they don't really care.
Then, there's the whole relationship thing! I mean, who came up with that? Just because you like someone doesn't automatically make them your girlfriend/boyfriend. Can't you just like someone? Obviously not in today's society. We are put in situations where not having a significant other is a sign that your not cool, or you aren't good enough. This makes girls so insecure! We think we aren't pretty enough or thin enough which causes a lot of the issues the world has to deal with now a days, like anorexia, depression, ect. Sure, you can like someone but you don't have to be together! It puts way to much stress on you guys!
Girls, I promise that guys care about you, they just don't always show their feelings very well. We are all young and nobody our age truly knows what love really is. So chill out! Like the cute boy in math and just like him. Don't let anybody pressure you into something you don't want to do. Wake up everyday and feel good about yourself. You don't have to be all primped up and cute unless that's what makes you feel good. From my guy friends, they love it when girls are just themselves and not hidden under layers of makeup (but from a girls point of view, i don't think I wouldn't wear makeup around my guys....:) So be who you are and I promise the right guy will come around someday and you will be glad you waited for him
Today's quote is, "Love ceases to be a pleasure, when it ceases to be a secret." -Aphra Behn. It's true girls. From experience, I've learned that it is a lot more fun to have a crush on a guy and giggle with your girlfriends about him. It just gets awkward when he knows! So have your crushes or crinkles or whatever you call it but make sure you aren't trying so hard you are stressing yourself out! Have a great day everyone! Bye!!

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